‘Lose your mind, come to your senses’

People with OCD like me, are often spending too much time in our heads, too much time thinking and giving importance to harmless thoughts! This idea isn’t just helpful for OCD sufferers but for people who suffer from anxiety and panic in general. When I had my intensive therapy which you can find out about HERE I remember the quote ‘Lose your mind, come to your senses’ being used, and I thought ‘what?! I’m scared I am already losing my mind, I don’t want too’ but it does not mean literally. It basically means when you’re having an anxiety provoking thought or feeling, stop for a second, forget about what is going on in your head and come to your senses, so notice what you see, hear, smell, taste and touch.

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All of these things are REAL, can you see any danger in front of you? no, your fight or flight is just sending you false messages and giving you the feeling of ‘something’s not right’ or a strong feeling of panic. Which at first I thought ‘no there is no real danger in front of me, but I’m worried I am the danger and what goes on in my head (OCD thoughts) is dangerous, this feeling of panic feels so frightening’ but like I got taught, what’s going on in your head is not real, it’s all imagination, which is why us people with anxiety and OCD get in such a pickle because we have very vivid imaginations! We know OCD is trying to trick us when the doubts come flooding in ‘yeah but what if there is a danger’ ‘what if I don’t do this and such and such happens’ so when that happens just take a second to notice reality rather than what’s going on inside our heads.

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Like my intensive therapist Sharon Davies said ‘No matter how much I imagine and think about being on holiday on a beach, size 10 in a bikini right now, I’m still not there’! What we think is not real, what’s going on in front of us is! I think this is a really useful thing to remember when your feeling the urge to listen to that horrible OCD voice in your head or feeling anxious in a situation thats not dangerous, try to   ‘Lose your mind, come to your senses’ !

Stay strong, keep on fighting, you got this?

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12 Comments

    • keith
      January 3, 2014 / 1:20 pm

      I’m bald. Been having thoughts that I’ve got a full head of hair. I’m still bald

      • January 4, 2014 / 12:48 am

        Haha that made me laugh, but it really makes you realise how just because you think something doesn’t mean its real! xx

  1. Andrea
    December 16, 2013 / 9:01 pm

    Very well explained, well done Anna

  2. ANONYMOUS
    December 17, 2013 / 4:14 am

    Interesting post! Keep it up.

  3. Hollie Jayde
    December 18, 2013 / 1:51 pm

    I’ve been through the worst time with this just recently and just writing this is not great for me but I will try this. Thank you.

    • December 18, 2013 / 6:29 pm

      Aw I know how that feels, I was struggling with the same last week, writing something then wanting to delete it because it didn’t feel right, if you ever need to talk just DM me on twitter! xxx

  4. January 25, 2014 / 9:21 am

    Great post! I love the quote about the bikini – makes you realise that, whatever our creative brains come up with, it won’t necessarily happpen. Not easy to see sense when OCD takes over but it’s possible, and things like that can really help! Thank you for posting this xx

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