5 Tips For Anxious Minds & Panic Attacks

Today’s blog post will hopefully help some of you who suffer with severe anxiety or panic attacks. If you don’t suffer with those above things, this may be something to remember in case you ever find yourself in the situation, where you need to calm yourself down or someone close to you. The terrible thing about panic attacks is that there is no quick fix solution, no one can say ‘just calm down’, ‘do this or that’ and you will feel instantly better, unfortunately that’s not going to happen. What you can do is find ways to cope through a panic attack until you come out the other side and to try ease the symptoms. Never feel alone or embarrassed about having anxiety or a panic attack, it can happen to anyone.


Anxiety and panic attacks have so many symptoms and they can appear different for different people from mild to severe. Here are some of the main symptoms…

? Intense overwhelming feeling of panic, fear, dread and anxiety.

? Feeling sick

? An uneasy churning feeling in your stomach

? Heart palpitations (racing very fast heart beat)

? Difficulty catching breath, fast breathing, shortness of breath, tightness of chest.

? Ringing in ears

? Hot flushes and chills

? Shaking

? Feeling of loosing control or going ‘crazy’

? Feeling faint or dizzy

? Pins and needles

? Sweating

? The need to remove yourself from your current surroundings

Here are some ways I think can help you through a panic attack and calm you down..

1. Take some time alone with yourself. If you’re the kind of person who wants to be alone and escape from the situation you’re in then do it. Take a second out to gather your thoughts and compose yourself.. Forget about what people might think etc, if it helps you to calm down that’s all that matter. You might recover faster and be able to return back to the situation calmer, if not that’s okay you win some you loose some. It’s okay to say ‘I’m feeling very anxious, I’m going to take a second on my own, please nobody fuss over me’ you’re human, do what you need to do to help yourself, don’t worry about everyone else, taking yourself away for a second means you may be able to calm yourself down without feeling self conscious of others watching you and being fussed over by them.

2. Take headphones in your bag and when things get too much on a train, bus, walking, in a car where ever it may be, put those headphones in and shut out the world. Play relaxing, soothing music or sounds. There is a great app called ‘Calm’ where you can pick a live, realistic scenery with sounds and music to go along with it. Focus on that scenery and the sounds, imagine you’re here, Ignore your racing thoughts and bring your mind back to the scenery and sounds on your phone.

3. Slow your breathing down. I know this is hard when your heart is racing and the panic is building up inside you making you breathe faster, but take control and breathe in and out slowly. Holding your breathes in and slowly breathing out. Another brilliant app for this is ‘Relax Lite’ the free version has a breathing counter, where you can focus on your breathing and watch a little pie chart telling you how long to hold and release your breaths and how often. You can even change the settings if the timings set aren’t right for your breathing. Forget how fast your hearts beating and focus on how much slower you can get it, don’t rush, slow everything down.

4. Take a second to take in your surroundings WITHOUT using your thoughts. Use your 5 senses, eyes, touch, smell,  taste and listening. Look around you, where are you? is there any real danger in front of you? or is your brains fight or flight responses miss firing again. No matter how scared your brain is telling you are and how scared you feel, is there danger in front of you? don’t let your brain tell you you’re in danger if you’re not. Your eyes won’t lie to you, if there’s no danger you see, your brain is miss firing. Touch something and focus on what it feels like, smell a sweet lip balm you have and focus on what it smells like and reminds you of, anything along those lines. If you’re at home light a candle and watch the flame flicker, notice the smoky smell, the warmth and how it moves. Have a warm bath, shut your eyes and focus on the feel of the water against your skin, the smell of the bubbles and the sound and warmth of the water. When your brain sends you tons of thoughts, let go  and refocus on your senses.

5. Remember you’re ok, no matter how frightened you feel during the mist of anxiety and panic. It will pass, emotions can’t last forever. Your body and brain is simply trying to keep you safe by triggering your fight or flight response, our brains can do this when there is no danger. It’s just a chemical reaction within our body’s and brains, it can’t hurt us, it can make us feel temporarily terrified but that’s all. The less fearful of what you’re feeling you are, the calmer you will become and the quicker the emotions will leave. Fearing it will undoubtedly bring more fear. Out logic your brain, you know your gong to be ok, thank your brain and body for keeping you safe when it’s not even needed.

 Don’t get frustrated with yourself. I know sometimes you feel angry about what you’re feeling because there is no reason to be feeling scared, frustration will raise your heart beat even more and stress you out. It’s okay to not know why you’re panicking, don’t try to work out why you are, think less and breathe deeper, when all those rushing thoughts pop into your head ‘why am I panicking’ ‘your stupid’ ‘this or that might happen’ ‘people will think I’m weird’ etc, ignore them, don’t entertain them this will only make them stronger and raise your anxiety levels, notice them, let go of them, refocus on breathing or any of the above steps. Being able to try to control your panic and anxiety won’t happen over night, practice makes perfect. I hope this helps someone even a little bit.

 If you have any good tips for panic attack and anxiety sufferers, leave them in the comments, lets help each other!

Stay strong,





  1. October 7, 2014 / 8:17 pm

    Thank you so much for the helpful advice. I wish you the best of luck if you struggle from anxiety too x

    • October 7, 2014 / 9:00 pm

      I’m so glad you found it helpful! I do indeed so thank you, best of luck to you to xxx

  2. October 8, 2014 / 1:42 am

    Great tips! This was a really good post, glad I stumbled across it!

  3. October 8, 2014 / 4:24 am

    Great work! I’ve been a pro getting folks through such experiences for many years. I’m glad to see your piece; I think it will help others. Always a good thing!

    • October 8, 2014 / 9:19 am

      Thank you, that’s exactly why I write these things, to try help others! So hearing from people who find it helpful or think it will help others means a lot to me! Xxx

  4. October 8, 2014 / 4:25 am

    Reblogged this on Big Red Carpet Nursing and commented:
    I’ve been a pro getting folks through such experiences for many years. I’m glad to see this piece; I think it will help others. Always a good thing! Do you have any tips?

  5. October 8, 2014 / 4:26 am

    I reblogged. If that’s a problem, let me know. Such great work, I wanted it seen!

    • October 8, 2014 / 9:20 am

      No that’s fine, thank you for doing it! Xx

  6. October 8, 2014 / 4:28 am

    Nice post. I shared this with a friend of mine going through a lot right now. I’m not much for dresses being a dude and all, but I like what you are doing w/your blog. Keep it up!

    • October 8, 2014 / 11:14 pm

      Thank you, I hope it helps your friend and thank you for sharing! xxx

  7. October 8, 2014 / 5:25 am

    Love all tips especially slowing the breathe ; ) Thank you

  8. October 8, 2014 / 11:01 pm

    Anna Marie, what a great thing you have done in this post! For people who have panic attacks, anxiety disorders, etc and for those who love them : ) I am almost 67 years old. Mine started in my twenties and I did think I was going crazy and/or dying. I learned over time and treatment and lots of personal research exactly what you have so succinctly explained here. So I know you will save other people from fear because you are sharing. Really cl ear and well written. btw, my own understanding actually I actually was able to help my daughter when hers hit in her twenties. I like your whole blog and will be following even if I don’t comment much. Sometime soon I’m going to do a post on my site about body image with my poem Dressing Room. Take care.

    • October 8, 2014 / 11:07 pm

      Aw thank you so much for your lovely comment, I say it means a lot to me every time someone comments, gives me feedback, likes a blog post, follows or simply just reads them and It honestly does. Comments like yours is one of the reasons I keep blogging even on days I feel like no ones listening or like my posts aren’t very good! It makes me so happy hearing from lovely readers like you and knowing people think what I’m doing will help others, this blog post seems to have gotten so many more likes than normal and I do not know how, when writing it I felt it wasn’t as help as I’d like, but I’m so glad people are finding it helpful, thank you again! xxxx

  9. October 8, 2014 / 11:39 pm

    The tips you’ve given are great and most are things I’ve done. Deep, slow breaths with my eyes closed seem to work best for me when the attacks are really bad. If the anxiety is there but not “urgent” feeling, I grab a pen and paper and doodle, a lot like Zentangles, but bigger. The slow, repetitive motion of the pen or pencil calms me. Thanks for your post — the attacks can be scary, and the more a person knows before one happens, the better!

    • October 8, 2014 / 11:43 pm

      Ahh thank you, glad you think they’re good! Yeah I think everyone has ways that work for them, but there all very similar, I think its about adapting other peoples tips to suit yourself and finding something that works for you! xxx

  10. October 10, 2014 / 12:55 pm

    Thank you. I shared your link on my blog. Great tips.

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